Gratitude

Remember, if you are criticizing, you are not being grateful. If you are blaming, you are not being grateful. If you are complaining, you are not being grateful. If you are feeling tension, you are not being grateful. If you are rushing, you are not being grateful. If you are in a bad mood, you are not being grateful.

The problem with us is that we take gratitude for granted.

Gratitude can transform your life. Are you allowing minor things to get in the way of your transformation and the life you deserve?

It's better to appreciate the things we dont have, than not appreciate the things we already have.

May the joy be with you.

Discover Your Purpose In Life


Our happiness in many ways ties directly to our inner voice that forever asks the question, "Are you moving toward your dream?" If your answer is "yes," then hope breeds contentment. 

However, if the answer is "no, it's too late," despair may fester within your subconscious. You might not even realize why your life lacks joy.

If you are unsure of what your dream might be — either because you are afraid to dream or because you somehow lost your dream along the way — then start preparing yourself to receive your dream by doing five things to put yourself in the best possible position to receive a dream. 

 Once you do these five things, focus on discovering your dream. As you do, keep this in mind: 'A dream is what you desire if anything and everything is possible.'
  1. Mental Preparation: Read and study in areas of your greatest interest. 
  2. Experiential Preparation: Engage in activities in areas related to your interests. 
  3. Visual Preparation: Put up pictures of people and things that inspire you. 
  4. Hero Preparation: Read about and try to meet people you admire and who inspire you. 
  5. Physical Preparation: Get your body in optimal shape to pursue your dream. 
Get Inspired  to go from fantasizer to dream builder and open yourself up to greater possibilities

How To Live The Life You Desire


George Bernard Shaw said, 
"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, make them."

 Well, it's pretty apparent, isn't it? And every person who discovered this believed (for a while) that he was the first one to work it out. We become what we think about.

 Now, it stands to reason that a person who is thinking about a concrete and worthwhile goal is going to reach it, because that's what he's thinking about. And we become what we think about.

Conversely, the person who has no goal, who doesn't know where he's going, and whose thoughts must therefore be thoughts of confusion, anxiety, fear and worry — his life becomes one of frustration, fear, anxiety and worry. And if he thinks about nothing ... he becomes nothing. 

How does it work? Why do we become what we think about? Well, I'll tell you how it works, as far as we know. To do this, I want to tell you about a situation that parallels the human mind.
 Suppose a farmer has some land, and it's good, fertile land. The land gives the farmer a choice; he may plant in that land whatever he chooses. The land doesn't care. It's up to the farmer to make a decision.

We're comparing the human mind with the land because the mind, like the land, doesn't care what you plant in it. It will return what you plant, but it doesn't care what you plant.
 Now, let's say that the farmer has two seeds in his hand — one is a seed of corn, the other is nightshade, a deadly poison. He digs two little holes in the earth and he plants both seeds — one corn, the other nightshade. He covers up the holes, waters and takes care of the land ... and what will happen? Invariably, the land will return what was planted. 

Remember, the land doesn't care. It will return poison in just as wonderful abundance as it will corn. So up come the plants — one corn, one poison. The human mind is far more fertile, far more incredible and mysterious than the land, but it works the same way. It doesn't care what we plant ... success ... or failure. A concrete, worthwhile goal ... or confusion, misunderstanding, fear, anxiety, and so on. But what we plant it must return to us.

 You see, the human mind is the last great, unexplored continent on earth. It contains riches beyond our wildest dreams. It will return anything we want to plant.

So what matters most is what you think.

Are You Someone Who Thinks Knows Everything?

Have you ever come across people who feel that they know everything and that everything they say is correct? I am sure that we all have encountered people like this at some point in our lives.
The question is however, what you do when you do suddenly come across a person with this type of personality. In most cases you will probably want to avoid them and get as far away as possible. There is however several things that you can do in order to get your point across to them, without getting into a huge hollering match.
First of all you need to understand how this type of person thinks. If they feel they know everything they will usually try to prove it or back it up with some facts or information that they have. The majority of people who feel they know everything have been either forced in a position growing up where they had to be responsible for a lot or carry a heavy load or who has issues with ego or has severe attitude problems.
When you are trying to get your point across to them the very best way is to prove what you say the same way that they would with you. For example if you are trying to show someone that there is more than one way to find a solution to a particular problem you can just state to them that there is another better way to do it. You need to demonstrate how you can arrive at the same solution but by using a different method. Basically you need to back up anything you say to this type of person with facts.
You will want to avoid telling them that they are wrong, at the start of your conversation. This will immediately cause them to get defensive, and they will not want to listen to anything you have to say.
This is usually the point where the yelling match will begin. If you are unable to demonstrate what your point at the moment don't argue just prove it at another time. People who feel they know everything happen to be very arrogant, and carry themselves in this way. Just try to remember that engaging them in any type of yelling match will only make them happy, not you. You will usually end up becoming more and more frustrated and annoyed as the conversation goes on. The bottom line is that there is a right way and a wrong way to deal with people who think they know everything. Avoiding them will not help them to see that they don't know everything. You can however take the time to show them that they don't.

I know it’s frustrating, believe me! but you need to deal with them.

I feel that “people who think know everything, actually know very little and are so naive and very insensitive”.

Are Your Habits Making You Successful?


We are all creatures of habit and if you make good habits, good habits will make you. This wisdom has been around since ancient times. Aristotle once said, "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit." 

The subconscious mind — the habitual mind — is over one million times more powerful than the conscious mind. This means that we spend a substantial amount of our lifetime on "autopilot," playing out the mental programs that govern our behavior. 

For example, while driving a car and carrying on a conversation with someone, the conscious mind is attending to what is being said in the moment while the subconscious mind is turning on the turn signal, hitting the brakes, attending to oncoming traffic, monitoring our blood sugar, regulating our breathing, planning our next move and on and on. The subconscious mind is so vast and so powerful that we do not even know what it is thinking or capable of. It truly runs our lives — whether we know it or not!

Habits begin and manifest deep in the mind and they can be friends or foes. Good habits can make our lives easier, helping us to do the more mundane things of life without thinking about them, like automatically depositing your paycheck.

But, as all of us know all too well, habits can also be destructive ... to our health, to our finances, to our relationships. It's why we struggle with losing weight, paying off our credit cards or quitting smoking ... to name a few "bad habits."

Whether they are a positive force in our lives or obstacles to the goals we want to achieve, habits become ingrained through repeated actions. 

Here is a little test to display the power of our habits. Cross your arms as you normally would, and look down to see which one is on top. About half of you will have your right arm on top and the other half will have their left on top. When you crossed your arms for the very first time, you might have been still in your playpen, and you have been crossing your arms the same way ever since. Now, cross your arms again, but this time put the opposite arm on top. It feels extremely weird! If you were to challenge yourself to cross your arms the "wrong" way for the rest of your life, could you do it? Probably. Would it be difficult? You bet it would!

Here's the point: Habits — good, bad, or neutral — are difficult to break ... they Die Hard! 

The real key to success is replacing destructive habits with successful habits. 

The 7 habits are listed below:
1.    Be Proactive
2.    Begin With The End in Mind
3.    Put First Things First
4.    Think Win-Win
5.    Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood
6.    Synergize
7.    “Sharpen the Saw”


To win — to break self-defeating attitudes and behaviors — we must understand that we have the power to choose and the power to change. We have the power to let go of old thinking and adopt the mindset of a champion.

Become A Hunter of Blessings!


"We determine whether something will be a blessing or a curse by the way we choose to see it."

Today, take the time to really think about the blessings in your life. Whether it is those first flowers you see in your yard or even the rain that often comes with the season, remember, you will determine whether something is a blessing or a curse by the way you choose to see it. Try to think of everything as a blessing this spring, because you never know when you will have a blessing in disguise.
Even those experiences we deem calamitous can carry the seeds of a great blessing. It is often only in retrospect, however, that the benefit reveals itself. And whether or not it reveals itself and how quickly it does so, is dependent upon only one thing: our own individual perspective.

We determine whether something will be a blessing or a curse by the way we choose to see it.

Life is an ongoing process, and most of us meet something at almost every turn we wish were different. But just because something is not turning out the way we want, doesn't mean it won't. And when we insist on calling it good, when we make up our minds that no matter what, we're going to see it as a blessing, and then our minds start working overtime to prove us right. Magical things tend to happen and that which we labeled a blessing, more often than not, turns out to be one...

...You have a mind that always tries to be right about everything so you might as well use it to your advantage. Become a hunter of blessings, actively seeking them out in every experience and person you encounter. No matter how bad a situation or person might seem, say to yourself and mean it, "There's a blessing in this, and I will find it!"

Your subconscious will accept this statement as a direct order and, if necessary, move heaven and earth to make certain the blessing is found. Follow this regimen for a while and you may very well discover that you've poked a hole in every problem and send every misery packing. Problems and miseries don't tend to stay in an atmosphere of blessings for very long.

…So the next time a difficulty arises, don't let yourself get tied up in knots. Take a deep breath and relax. You have nothing to worry about. That difficulty is nothing more than a signal that a blessing is on its way. And as you start looking for the blessing, everything else will fade away.

"Become a hunter of blessings, actively seeking them out in every experience.