As a man was
passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these
huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No
chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at any time, break
away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.
He saw a
trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt
to get away. “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller
we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold
them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away.
They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.”
The man was
amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because
they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.
Like the
elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot
do something, simply because we failed at it once before?
Failure is
part of learning; we should never give up the struggle in life.